Ok, so the last vlog I released, I told you about wanting to take a break from sex. Now that vlog was shot about five or six months ago and I can tell you that I stayed true to my word. There has been NO sex. But, I am ready to get back out there but I want to be very clear of what kind of relationship I want. In this vlog, I break down that very subject. I am curious to hear what you guys think. -DS
JUST SEX VLOG # 29: “SEXUAL RELATIONSHIPS”
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Mutual F*#$ buddies never work. One of the two ALWAYS puts to much emotion and baggage into the mix at one point and it goes SO WRONG!
Find someone who will stop in town fro a day or two and be GONE. Trying to make f-buddy long term rules is just a terrible idea it always blows up and makes it terrible. I had an idea a while back about THIRD PARTY regulatory measures but have not yet expanded upon that.
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i tried this and it doesnt really work out so great, one party invlolved always gets emotionally attached and wants to take it to the next level. how do we prevent this? and what if one person finds someone else to fuck or have a commited relationship with? where does this leave the other person? any hair looks good on you babe.
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Yeah i have a fuck buddy it pretty awesome….but i do treat her with respect and she does the same to me and we kinda keep it on the DL so there would be no problems…..but she wont let me cum in her face lol…..by the way your lips are SEXY
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Your mind has been fucked too many times.
You want this but you do not want that when these two go together.. bla .. bla .. bla.
You can’t have what you always want lady.
Sound like you want to have many boyfriends that respect you and when they call you they will be there. You still be open to other sexual relationships but at the same time you want a commitment. You can’t respect somebody that just wants to fuck and then leave. You can respect a man but not a woman. Society has not changed.
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No cum on the face or hair. Its gross and messy and stupid
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I like your old hair too.
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You are looking for something relatively impossible. Any man worth having in that way will be in a relationship. And if he’s not, he will be actively looking for one and fucking other people when he is with you in his “defined sexual relationship”. You can be the sure thing sitting at home waiting for him to come over, while he can be free to hunt for someone harder to get or at least different. The type of relationship you want is rare…and will probably only be achieved with an ex bf.
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Ah, you’re a woman after my own heart! I wanted just the same as you a while back and sorta got it with a man I maintained friendly (but not true bf-friendly) relations with, and yeah, it is hard. Eventually we started developing real feelings, but even when it was time to quit, I was able to easier than him. I think I might’ve hurt him. Sucks, ’cause the ‘relationship’ was so fun and easygoing. If more people could understand ‘fuckbuddy’ like you the world would be a better place. Amen!
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That part in your video talking about letting a guy “cum on your face” gave me a semi.
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honey thats not the way a mans mind works most men that r just “fucking u” will NOT have respect for u. y would they?u r not their girl if they r fucking u most likely they r fucking others too. if thats what u want then u have to accept what comes with it and thats “disrespect”
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i like the hair and like you said its alot harder to find a relationship like that where its mutual just sex
everytime i tried and the girls said she was totally cool with it they started to get feelings or even i started to get possesive
good luck thou
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love you, and really wanna love the hair, but it’s not working for you, hon. you looked gorgeous with your old hairstyle, and this is more cavewomanesque because of your hair texture. i’m all for new looks, just not this one on you. ;]
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does your mother love u ?? hahah
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i want to be your friend
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I don’t think you’re going to find what you’re looking for. People have a hard enough time finding a bf/gf that meets your guildlines for a fuck buddy, minus the “no strings attached” thing. You should just casually date and make sure they know these are open relationships.
Also, you hair is not so great. You look kinda like a man in drag in your thumbnail. I think it is the bangs.
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You’re right. It’s very hard to find. I think one reason is people tend to get attached, even if they don’t want to. It’s not that there’s anything wrong with getting attached. It’s perfectly fine, unless you absolutely don’t want it.
I have a friend in another state who I could (probably still can) do sexual things with. The problem is she gets attached very easily. However, there is a kind of a balancing act. I think the key is having an established a friendship with the person already.
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i ll get to my thougths on this topic a bit later but for now i did want to comment on your hair. I love it when you see a female with bangs!! I dont understand why more ladys dont let that look come back more offten. Mainly on itailn looking girls it look’s really good thanks for making your hair like that! And any females watching this video and reading this please just try the bangs look for 2 weeks i bet alot fo you would look really fucking good with it!!
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So far every girl ive fucked liked cum in her mouth and not in her face or hair.
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dude we just wanna have sex nothing wrong with that, your horny, i’m horny, yeah come over chill out, you wanna drink? You know its late in the night, she comes online if i’m in the mood yeah sure i’ll come and pick you up or come over by you, watch a movie, we have sex, you relieved i’m relieved, i’ll drop you back home or i’ll go back home, or if you have a car she’ll go back home, cool. it’s pretty easy actually.
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i wish i knew a girl that loved my cum on her face
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u no i think thats a frikin brilliant idea…i wana do the same now lol but finding someone is gna be hardd
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ill be someones fuck buddy!
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