There are three choice phrases I have used that have taken my game to another level in field. Sometimes having a coined phrase that displays a playful side of your personality will bring a girl into your reality. These are some sure fire phrases that will help add a touch of spunk to your game.

One of my favorites is the mock-serious “How Dare You!” Using this when a girl does anything outside of your reality helps steer her back into your reality. Say you are talking to an HB 10 and she touches you, or takes a sip of your drink, or dishes a snide remark, having an appalled look on your face with a retort of “How Dare you!?” Is a sly way to show them who’s in charge. Usually this is followed by a snicker and some sexual tension. It demonstrates you have a sense of value to call her out in a playful way. Pointing out her behavior as unacceptable causes them to be aware of themselves and how they are coming across. It’s a great way to bust their balls.

Another phrase I use that is excellent for establishing comfort is “OMG, me too! You’re starting to creep me out.” Finding commonalities with your target is key when it comes to establishing comfort. I like to play a game in field where I tell a girl that we are going to say our favorite movie on the count of three. We say it at the same time to see if we hit a match. I do this with a couple of different scenarios, favorite television show growing up, favorite comedy movie, favorite musician, etc. it’s a fun game that makes finding common ground fun and interesting. Don’t fall into her frame when doing this. Be sure to know the answers to the questions you are going to ask her. Say the name of your favorite movie, and if hers is different, say “OMG, I love that movie too.” Then instantly give a reason why or an anecdote that will provide a strong reason for the commonality. What’s even more powerful is if you can get your target to say “OMG, ME TOO!” You can guarantee you are creating attraction.

Lastly one of my go to phrases to re-frame is, “I don’t believe you!” This is a clever device to use in field when getting any type of resistance from a woman. Say a girl says she doesn’t take her top off on the first date. Look at her with a sly smile and say, “I don’t believe you!” Usually you’ll get a look of surprise to challenge her in such a way. If she is stubborn she might say, “I DON’T!” Simply laugh a little and say, “Look, you don’t even believe you!” This is powerful when it comes to re-framing. I have gotten out of falling into a girls reality with this nifty piece of word gold.

Try these out in field and watch your game soar – Jonny Cruz

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Flirting with girls is often seen as an intimidating thing, when it should be fun and entertaining. If you want the thrill of seeing that girl smile back at you and the ultimate reward of walking away with her on your arm, then you have to get rid of the tension and relax. The real trick to flirting with girls successfully is to make them think it is effortless and natural.

The last thing you want to do is give off the vibes of fear and intimidation when flirting with girls because they are just going to roll their eyes and walk in the opposite direction. To get you started thinking of some creative ways to approach girls and let them know you are interested, consider the following ideas for flirting.

Crack a Joke

Girls love to laugh! It may seem like most are more proud of their frown than their smile, but it’s a proven fact that the boys who can make a girl smile are more likely to have success when it comes to romance. Therefore, it makes sense that one great way of flirting with girls is to crack a joke that brings out her smile naturally.

We are not talking about cheesy jokes or saying the same one over and over again. You have to have a real sense of humor, since a girl will know if you are faking it. Find jokes which are funny and remember a ton of them. Practice them at home until you are able to instantly snap one off at the appropriate time as if it just comes naturally.

Tricks and Treats

If you aren’t a naturally funny guy, don’t worry! Flirting with girls can also be quite successful if you know some type of magic tricks or are able to give little treats of some sort at the appropriate moment. Again, this has to be done correctly if you are to really win a girl over with these techniques. It has to flow naturally, so practice is essential.

You never want to chase a girl down and force her to watch some trick that is extremely obvious. You want her to wonder how you did that, not report that her five year old brother has been doing that for years. You have to find tricks which get her guessing or thinking. Something with a touch of humor will get a giggle and pay off twofold.

For treats, we are not talking about whipping out a dozen long stem roses when you see her at the movies; unless she is already your date! Think of treats in terms of little things you can do for her. Try to open doors for her. Pick something up when she drops it. Give her information when she asks a question. Just trying to enter her world in small helpful ways can open the door to small acts of flirtation such as smiles and staring at one another for a moment.

Flirting with girls may not come easy to you, but you have to make it look effortless to the girls if you are to get anywhere with them. Some may find trying too hard while flirting with girls cute and endearing, but for most it is simply a turn off.

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The basic rules of how to start a conversation with a girl you’ve never met are really pretty easy. It can also be one of the most nerve racking things a guy can do until he realizes just how easy it really is.

Keep these general approach techniques in mind and you should be just fine.

1. Direct conversation starter: Often times, walking up and saying “hi” is all you need to do. With a little smile on your face, a genuine “hello” followed by a short silence can cause a woman to fill in the blanks, and your job of approaching is done. What you do after that is up to you.

2. Situational Opener/conversation starter: Pay attention to what is going on around you and see if there is an opportunity to make a funny or witty comment about it and you should have no problem getting the conversation started. Whether it’s something about her, what she’s wearing, what she’s doing or what others are doing around you, situational conversation starters are some of the easiest to come up with quickly.

3. Opinion openers: Girls love to give their opinions on subjects and this gives you an excuse to ask her a question without her knowing for sure if you’re hitting on her or genuinely interested. Girls have been known to respond very well to opinion openers about relationship, gossip or fashion issues.

4. Compliment her: Over complimenting a girl when she has done nothing to really earn it is not the best idea. It is not advisable to compliment her beauty or looks because it’s something she’s probably heard a lot of. Rather, compliment something she’s wearing or doing and you’ll have much more luck at keeping the conversation going.

Starting a conversation with a girl is just the beginning, but one of the most important parts. Luckily it’s the part that’s over with the quickest and then you have to entertain her with your wit, charm and other talents.

Some men understand that using talents such as music or even magic tricks can be very effective when done correctly and when you avoid the mistakes that most men make. Get more information on how to start a conversation with a girl and even use magic tricks to build attraction.

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Most guys who stress over how to pick up girls spend more time second guessing themselves than simply going out there and trying it out. Look, man. You won’t improve your game much and it might take you years before you learn how to pick up girls if you just sit in front of your PC dreaming of the time you want to spend with beautiful women.

The first thing you need to do is to try your best to get out of your head after work, and quit making work an excuse not to socialize. I’ve got news for you. You have everything you need to be a guy who can easily pick up girls anywhere.

The very basic thing you have to learn is how to hype yourself up for a night of pick up…

Two Prep Work Tactics of Master Pick Up Artists

1. Relax Your Mind

If you’re too drained after work, you might feel like you’re in no mood to socialize and you could be right. Simply relaxing your mind for a while will cure your post-work blues in no time. Real excitement over going out starts when your body and your mind have fully adjusted to the different level of stimuli. Grab your favorite MP3 and listen to soothing music; or anything that will take your mind off work. When you’re talking to women later, you need something other than work to talk about, or else you’ll sound like a corporate robot.

2. Socialize

The guys who can be witty in conversation have a secret to doing this. They stay social throughout the day, with anyone, man or woman. Just by following these tips, you can enjoy more productive nights (and days). Once you get used to your routine of relaxing and staying social, you will get more lays, guaranteed!

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If you’ve always been socially awkward, you might think that getting over your shyness is the only way to start becoming a babe magnet. But, if you don’t really have the time to get over your shyness (like when the party you’re attending is tonight), something has got to give. Why don’t you do it differently this time? Make women approach you.

Make no mistake of it. You just have to find out how to get girls to feel an attraction so strong that they would want to go after you. In reality, women are prone to thinking they could be letting a quality guy pass them by, if they do not at least put effort in seducing him.

Because you’re bashful, they might see you as distant and odd. But, if you do not do anything at all in the next hour or so, they might simply think you’re too uninteresting to talk to, or you’re gay.

Keep reading to discover how to get girls to chase you, rather than doing it the “conventional” way.

Two Uncomplicated Tips on How to Get Girls to Like You

#1: Flaunt the Body Language of an Alpha Male

You catch sight of more Alpha guy and you can’t help but be amazed. These are the same men with babes hanging all over them, and acting so nonchalant like it’s their birthright to attract girls. As luck would have it, anyone can project alpha traits. If you’re in a group, be the most sociable person there, and have fun with it. Be at the center of your group and the babes around you will gape in amazement and wonder why all the people are so fascinated.

#2. Confirm that You’re Well-Liked

When you enter a room, shake hands, exchange good-natured remarks and make other people notice you by being friendly. A switch turns on in a woman’s mind if she sees someone who is well loved by other people, men and women alike. She will end up asking who you are and why you seem to recognize everybody.

Sadly, there are some men who do not understand how to utilize body language to be more seductive. Women instinctively know that a guy is quality. You can help her decide whether you’re great or not by following the tips above. If everybody seems to reaffirm to her that you are the best guy in the scene, she will keep on trying to get your interest.

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Knowing the following routine provides you with a surefire way to prevent stalling out in a set. Plus, it fascinates your listeners and shines you in a very attractive light.

The second you notice she is wearing rings say, “I have to ask before I run, why did you chose to wear that ring on that particular finger?”

[She responds].

You respond. “The reason why I am asking is that my friend is really deep into spirituality. She says that the fingers that a person chooses to wear rings on says something about their personality.” Then tell her about each finger she has a ring on.

She should not be interested in what you have to say. Take a moment to tell her about each finger that she doesn’t have a finger on. Then move on to explaining about the fingers that do have rings on them. Use the fingers that have rings on them to tell her more about who she is.

Listed below are sample scripts about what each finger means. You don’t have to memorize them perfectly, a basic idea of what each finger means will do.

THUMB

Tell her about that if she wears a ring on her thumb, she is independent and likes to do things her way. Next tell her that the thumb ring represents Poseidon. Poseidon is extremely independent from the other gods. He lives in the sea and does things his way.

Another things that you can comment on is the uniqueness of the thumbs position. The thumb sticks out from the rest of the other digits on your finger. Tell her that if she chooses to wear a thumb rings, that she does not like to follow trends and she prefers to set them.

INDEX FINGER

Take special attention to tell he that the index finger represents Zeus the king of the gods and the god of lightning and thunder.

That’s a very dominant finger. It represents power and immense energy. Having a ring there means you tend to be a more dominant person.”

End by waving of your index finger at her as if to say “no no no” or “don’t do that.”

MIDDLE FINGER

“Your middle finger is represented by Dionysus who is the god of wine and partying. He is an incredibly irreverent god.

Having a ring there means you tend to do whatever you want and care less about what others think.”

If they’re wearing a ring on this finger toss up your middle finger and joke, “It’s like saying screw you to the world.” This almost always get a laugh.

RING FINGER

Choosing to wear a ring on the ring finger is a representation of the Greek god, Aphrodite. Aphrodite was the goddess of love.

When you fall for someone, you tend to fall for them completely.” This is a great spot to deviate from your script and work in some romantic cold-reading.

Lastly tell her that there is also scientific proof why the ring finger represents love. Tell her that when a scientists studied MRI scans from multiple hands of random people, they discovered that the ring finger is the only finger in your hands that has a vein that goes straight to the heart without branching off. So the next time someone puts a ring on your finger, they are actually making a direct connection with your heart.

PINKY FINGER

The Greek god Ares is represented by wearing a ring on you pinky finger.

Wearing a ring on your pinky finger can mean two different things. The first side represents you being a protector. When anyone threatens the ones you love, you are usually the first person to become protective. The second side is a little darker. It show that you are a little mischievous and tend to break or bend the rules frequently.

At the end, you should smile and momentarily lock your pinky with hers.

CONTINGENCIES:

* If she isn’t wearing rings and you still want to use this routine, then you can begin by saying “Look at your hands and imagine that you’re wearing some rings. Now, tell me which fingers you’re imagining them on.”

* If during or after the routine the woman asks, “How do you know this?” You may respond, “An ex- girlfriend of mine was into mythology and taught it to me.”

* If she wears a ring on her wedding finger then inquire “Is that an engagement ring or do you just wear that to keep the womanizers away?” You’ll be surprised how often the latter is true.

Here is quick reference pocket guide for you to memorize and use. Enjoy.

Pinky = Ares representing conflict and protection Index = Zeus representing dominance and power Middle = Dionysus representing irreverence Ring = Aphrodite representing love and romance Thumb = Poseidon representing individuality

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